Spaces that allow free-flowing conversations about mortality, known as death salons or death cafes, are becoming increasingly popular across the United States.
These gatherings are growing more common nationwide, with practitioners specifically addressing the unique end-of-life concerns of marginalized populations, including queer, trans, and Black or brown individuals.
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Nefertiti Moor, a 39-year-old death doula, hosted a session in a small room at a cemetery in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
She invited attendees to talk freely about cultural associations with dying and grief. “It’s not death counseling or a debate,” said Moor.
Tasha Johnson, an attendee working in behavioral health, shared that she felt desensitized after the recent deaths of several acquaintances.
She grappled with the reality that death can happen to anyone at any point.
Moor provides emotional and practical support to dying individuals and their loved ones, noting that she mostly works with Black and brown people because she understands the cultural stigmas regarding end-of-life planning.
“I see cultural norms where death isn’t openly discussed until there’s a crisis, and that can leave families scrambling to make decisions during some of the hardest parts of their lives,” Moor said.
“I often see financial barriers when it comes to funeral planning or end-of-life prep. I see mistrust of the healthcare systems.”
To assist families, Moor shares information about cheaper and eco-friendly alternatives like green burials, where bodies are buried in shrouds without embalming or hardwood caskets.
