After talking it through, he agreed to split the cost of a second ticket.
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'I don't understand why Rita now seems upset,' Gary says.
'I pointed out that I'm doing her a favour, but from my perspective that is simply a statement of fact.'
He notes that without the arrangement, he could attend for free, but now he's spending money.
Gary insists he doesn't expect endless gratitude, but believes it's fair to acknowledge his concession. 'Sometimes one person gives a little, sometimes the other does,' he says.
He adds that they split bills evenly, though he earns more and occasionally chips in for cleaning products.
Reader Verdict: Mixed Opinions
Guardian readers offered varied perspectives. Some sided with Rita, calling Gary 'ungracious' and noting that he benefits from her company.
'This is a win-win situation,' one reader said. 'He should accept that she's grateful and leave it there.'
Others supported Gary, arguing he is indeed doing a favour.
'He is doing Rita a favour and it's completely fair for both parties to acknowledge this,' another reader commented.
A third reader suggested that if the arrangement feels burdensome, Rita should simply not go.
Many agreed that unequal finances can complicate friendships. 'I find it's best when gifts are offered rather than requested,' one reader advised.
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'The richer friend paying for more rounds of drinks or buying both tickets occasionally.'
